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Romance In Life……… How Much Is Romance Necessary In Relationships? - Tollybeats

Romance In Life……… How Much Is Romance Necessary In Relationships?

Updated | February 6, 2017 02:48 IST

n order to meet success, long-term relationships do take work. Many couples share in the sense that their relationships lack fulfilment after a period of time. While turmoil in any relationship is part of the course, long-term feelings of neglect or a lack of desire are not.

Indeed, partners often wonder why their relationships fail, where those loving feelings have gone, or why they feel under-appreciated by their partners. This generally happens after the so called “honeymoon period”.  In some cases, couples may not experience this sense of loss for years.  But what about the couples that never seem discontented, whose displays of admiration for one another are apparent even after decades of marriage.  Indeed, they are doing something right.  Happily married couples with a long history together, have managed to preserve some of the elements that were present while they were in the early stages of courtship.

Consider the time when you and your current partner were dating, before things got serious. Though you had a lot of fun, you were probably putting in a great deal of effort to keep them interested. What were those things you did differently, and how does the past compare with the present?

Generally, romance includes one or more of the following:

Small actions that convey affection, adoration, thoughtfulness, and love

Activities or actions of novelty-actions executed for no other purpose than to enhance feelings of joy and connectedness

Class – activities or events that add a touch of high living.

Any actions which bring a couple closer or show thoughtfulness and adoration.

Romance is a very important aspect of one’s life and will remain to be forever for a happy living.

Romance needs to be a normal and necessary part of our lives. And the truth is there are no secrets to romance – you need to know what works for your partner; what makes them happy and apply them as often as you can to sweeten your relationship. Sustaining a marriage demands work, cooperation, and commitment. A couple is already accustomed to these things but marriage does not have to be all about ‘hard work’.